Women listen to men all the time, deeply. They want nothing more than for a man to be 100% consistent all the time. That's why bad boys get more run - they never have to lie. The second a man lies, it's over. The second a man breaks a promise, over. And a woman hates herself when she accepts her weakness for a man who lies.
What men mean to women audibly, women mean to men visually. When she looks hot, she must always look hot. The man wants the hotness and attention of the hot girl. He is forever after that image and then has to deal with the reality of the woman underneath all that beauty. He still visualizes her at her hottest - that is the unspoken promise. That she looks that hot all the time for him. When he finds that it is an elaborate construction, he is defeated. And a man hates himself when he accepts his weakness for a woman whose beauty is fake.
Every word a man says to a woman is an audible promise. Every smile a woman gives to a man is a visual promise. We are mutually distrustful of those promises (according to our self-confidence) and deconstruct them and test them all the time.
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